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That's a really good source for linguistics.

Whether Urban Dictionary is authoritative about etymology isn't the point, the point is that reflects that how our society commonly uses and perceive words. If it has that definition there, highly upvoted and with multiple submissions, that's what the word is going to end up meaning to the people who read your posts.

If you, and your wife, like to refer to women that way that's your prerogative (though I'd suggest you think hard about your choices). But don't be surprised when other people don't want to listen to you, and your legitimate substantive complaints get lost.